Tuesday, May 25, 2004
Can someone justify the real term of 'Love Hurts'?
Someone said, "Love hurts".Why is that so?It is because we rather believe that if we keep mum about all the wrong doings of our love ones had done and continue loving them,and stay faithful to them...things will be better?Maybe so...maybe no for some.But how much longer can you take?How long are you willing to suffer...just because you love him/her?It really depends on you.In this case, please dun say life is unfair for you.Cause you yourself is unfair to yourself.
After that...you start to settle in self pity...and start contradicting."Maybe...if I just close one eye and dun bother.Its better."In this case...though you tell yourself you dun bother,you still do.Why?Cause its love...you love the other...thats why you bother.Human beings...like to bother...sometimes bother too much.Then again...for certain things...its better not to bother.It really depends on the situation.
But staying ignorant isn't a bliss...cause all the hurt,disappointment in you...will finally accumulate and one fine day, you'll erupt!!!Like a volcano.So I rather you start burning now and settle things soon than to erupt like a volcano.Please dun be stubborn...its not fair to yourself...your inner being.Cause you'll go mad!!And the other who is hurting you is not that worth it if he/she continues cheating,disappointing you all the time.
Wat matters most is the quality of the relationship.Not how long you're together.It takes two hands to clap.And if the other hand is paralysed...you can continue clapping...except that the other hand will have to do more work.
In a realtionship...it takes both parties to make it work.No one is at fault if pride is hit or ego is hurt.
There are no words or feelings to justify the real term, "Love hurts".
*This is just my opinion la..if I were in any of your shoes...this is the way how I would do things.
